14 March 2018

Two Kinds of Leaders

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Many articles are written about leaders and leadership, with an eye to being a good leader, but there is a need to recognize if you have a good leader so that you can avoid organizations that will either cause your ruin or their own. Leaders set the tone and prospects for their organization, and sometimes the people with whom you work matter at least as much as what you do. It has been said that most people don't quit their job; they quit their boss, and it's time we understood tersely why that is so. Leaders boil down to two attitudes when it comes to their position relative to the members of their team. The first group doesn't care who they had to step on in order to get there and who they have to step on to stay where they are. The second group remembers and venerates those who helped them rise and reaches down to help other people rise to better opportunities like they did. As long as people find some reason to stay, they will put up with bad leadership. If the leader offers them some token, they will take it. If the leader lets them do their job without interference or the way you want to do it, you'll stick with that job despite the leadership. If not, you'll find a similar job with different leadership and hope and pray that you get lucky enough to find someone who lifts you.

Far too many people in leadership positions constitute a kakistocracy, or rule by those who are least qualified. They usually achieve these positions by bullying others into choosing a different path. Some are belligerent bullies; the rest are manipulative, conniving people who engage in character assassination as a way to ablate your superior qualifications. In many cases, they also form coalitions and draw upon the power of others to climb up, promising them spoils, and then flip them the bird once the achievement arrives. They backstab, backbite, back peddle, and like back rooms. Surely, you can think of at least one person right now that you know in leadership who you think does not deserve it. They care nothing for the people. You are a means to an end. You are a "resource" to be consumed for their advancement. They will step all over you to get the position and then step on others to make sure they can't. They were the bullies in grade school who pulled down your pants to embarrass you, slapped your tray to the floor to starve you, and ganged up on you to make sure that even if your team won, you went down. These are vile people who follow the admonition of Voldemort that "there is no good and evil, only power and those too weak to seek it." BY their logic if you aren't willing to do whatever it takes to have power you don't deserve it. This kind of leadership is typified in the tyrant, the dictator, who tells people to fall in line or get in line. His organization is full of yes men who never compromise on a narrow vision and as a consequence miss opportunities and the warning signs of danger. Usually these organizations collapse under their own weight, unless they are government entities, which are borne up by law.

Small-minded leaders will hold other people back when they reach higher ranks out of fear of losing that rank. Some of them fear that if anyone else is promoted, it will reveal their weaknesses or ineptitude, so they make sure that nobody better than they are makes any progress. Some of them depend on their "underlings" for their numbers, bonuses, and performance, so they make sure you stay there so that they can continue to look good. In a few rare professions, they view it as a badge of honor to make sure that they "save the company money" by keeping people from being promoted, because it would cost the company. They forget that attitude of employees reflects leadership, and if the employees don't feel the leaders care, the employees won't work as well as they could if they thought their leaders cared about them. This petty group of people is usually the group that loads up responsibility on the best employees until the employees leave for other jobs and then wonders why they can't get good people to work there. Everyone wants to move up and advance, not just the people who are currently leaders. This kind of leader encourages and breeds mediocrity, because the only people they keep in the end or for the duration are people who have nowhere else to go.

In rare but blessed events, you find a leader who acts like a mentor and finds a way to help their people rise with them. The best of leaders look for people who would help the organization grow, improve, and excel, because they are not insecure in themselves enough to think that they're the best the company will ever have. They know that if the company improves, it will also be to their benefit in some way, even if obliquely, so they find ways to give their best employees the best shifts, first pick for overtime, first choice of vacation days, or whatever other incentives they can. When possible, they help those employees compete for promotion, knowing that if they surround themselves with better people the team will improve. The best of leaders groom their own replacements and help the best people to rise, even if they don't know those people and if those people don't owe them favors. Maybe you've met some of those leaders, who try to do whatever they can to keep you, even if they can't do what they would like or what you would like. At least they make an effort. They find a way to improve your lot. They find opportunities for you to advance. Maybe they pay for classes or let you out early or provide daycare or provide a company vehicle or let you go to conferences in exotic places. Point is, they do something to make it worth your while, to show you that they value you, because they know that if they spin the roulette wheel and have to replace you in a hiring process, they're likely to get a blase replacement.

When you have a bad leader, you have a choice to make. Are you satisfied by the work even if the promotions and raises don't come? Many people are not, and so they flit from organization to organization only to find that most people who aspire to leadership are the ones least fit to be there, and they remain miserable because they don't find joy in the job. Although it is true that the cream rises to the top, so often does the scum, and the scum thinks it's the cream.  If you are motivated by rank or pay or the esteem of colleagues, then an organization with bad leadership, however laudable their goals may be, may ultimately cause you misery. Perhaps this is why Thomas More gave Richard Rich the advice to be a teacher. He knew that power and position and pelf would change his young protege as it had most of his colleagues in parliament. Rich, unfortunately for More, was more interested in the rewards of man than those of God, and ultimately his testimony condemned More to death. The good leaders are very rare, because most bad leaders don't let those people infiltrate their organizations. You have to work somewhere, and maybe moving elsewhere will help, but ultimately in most cases you find that no matter who plays the part, Brutus is still Brutus and still stabs Caesar in the back eventually. People are people, and wherever you go you will find crappy leadership and crappy comrades. If leadership fails, the joy must be in the job. In conclusion, the leadership track in any organization invites you to consider the following poem- what kind of person will you be?

Edgar Guest: “I watched them tearing a building down, A gang of men in a busy town. With a ho-heave-ho and a lusty yell, They swung a beam, and the side wall fell. I asked the foreman: "Are these skilled-- And the men you'd hire if you had to build?" He gave me a laugh and said: "No, indeed! Just common labor is all I need. I can wreck in a day or two What builders have taken a year to do." And I thought to myself as I went my way, Which of these roles have I tried to play? Am I a builder who works with care Measuring life by a rule and square? Am I shaping my deeds to a well made Plan, Patiently doing the best I can? Or am I a wrecker, who walks the town Content with the labor of tearing down?”

02 March 2018

CTR Rings Protect You

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In my Faith at the age of about 8, I received my first CTR Ring. CTR stands for Choose the Right. It was a reminder to us as we became members of the Faith to do what is right, to be the best version of ourselves possible, a tangible and visible reminder of a commitment we made even if we didn't fully understand its scope and implications. Back then, it was fun, but because I was a minority religion in school, it also made me an anomaly, but that had its purpose too. Now that I'm wiser and older, I understand some of these purposes better, and it's the only piece of jewelry besides my fitbit that I wear. Ever. It's cheap- $0.25US (back then), but its value is great. After I starting teaching Microbiology I learned of some other ways in which it protects you, and although I'm not sure if the leaders of the Faith knew this and did it intentionally, it adds a certain nuance. Now before you jump the shark and take credit for these thoughts, please know that I already told both my congregational leader and my Sunday School class these same things, so they can vouch for the fact that you didn't come up with it. The ring's presence and contents constitute its protective power. The metals of which it's comprised steel your mettle against the literal corruption of the flesh by organisms that would harm you or destroy you, and the symbols on its face remind you to steel yourself against influences of the spirit that would lead you away to harm or destruction. In essence, this is quite literally provided to young people in my faith as a shield and a protection against the power of the destroyer, literally and figuratively speaking.

The outside of the ring is made shiny by virtue of a zinc plating, a common technique to protect other metals from degrading (galvanization). Zinc is ironically essential for your survival in some cases and prevents the growth of viral strains that would otherwise corrupt your genome. Many genes in humans have "zinc fingers", which is a region of DNA where zinc ions bind that tell your cells where a gene starts so that you can use your DNA more efficiently. Viral genomes, which are MUCH smaller, when they bind zinc, are prevented from other associations with other molecules because the zinc outcompetes other molecules for room to dock. The purpose of the teachings of my Faith are designed to prevent other idealogies from gaining a foothold and reproducing themselves in you, and they are integral to show you what is really important and necessary for you to do in your life just like zinc fingers tell your body what parts of your genetics are important and useful. Galvanized against the powers that might otherwise degrade your mettle, the ring sits on the outside and provides you a reminder of what you ought to do and serves as a protection against influences that might direct your efforts to some other reactions. Like the galvanized outer metal layer, on your finger the ring resists forces that get at your core, that would change your principles, behaviors, attitudes and norms. The metal plating on the outside resists organisms that would establish themselves as part of your DNA and corrupt your ability to be the best version of yourself possible.

Most of the ring is made from copper, which also has a literal protective benefit. Copper ions provide protection from fungus. I have known this for years, ever since I went to the doctor when I was like 10 for a growth on my neck and the flight surgeon proscribed that I shower using selson blue shampoo, which is blue because it has copper in it, and the copper prevents the maturation of fungus, ergo the spread thereof. You are most likely to encounter fungus as a challenge to your health. That's because we use fungus in dairy products, bread, and alcohol as a means to actually prepare the final edible versions. So, if you have ever had any of those in your house, and if your house is too humid, there is fungus there making you miserable. In addition to that, there are some fungal strains that actually attack you- athlete's foot, jock itch, feminine itch, etc., and so the copper in the ring helps to prevent fungus from establishing a foothold and making you struggle even if you aren't actually "sick". That's one of the purposes of living a Christian life- so that you prevent the adversary from establishing a foothold in your life and creating problems you could otherwise avoid if he's not allowed to set up camp. Not everything evil encourages makes you evil; sometimes it keeps you from doing better things. Murder is no better of a temptation than cards if cards will do the trick.

Ultimately, the ring serves as a symbol of what we believe and the promises we make as Christians to live as He would have us. I know some people ask what would Jesus do, but more importantly, the ring asks us to consider what Jesus would have ME do. Simply put- the gospel of Jesus Christ is to love God, love your neighbor, and then live like you mean that, to choose what is right, what is best, and then trust in God's grace, love, and timing. We see the simple anagram and know what it means, and if you actually look at it, it reminds us that God ever always achieves great things by small and simple means. The benefit is not just subconscious and subtle. As the ring degrades and the metal grows exposed, the ring leaves a stain on the hand. As if the glaring green letters weren't enough, eventually there's a ring around the finger even if you remove the ring from the metals dissolving in the acids from your hand and entering the body. Both of these draw attention to your finger. Mostly, I think it bothers the wearer, because the ion ring on your finger is unsightly and because the green lettering and shield look almost cartoonish. This forces you to notice the ring, notice the ring's literal effects on your body and think about your CTR ring, reminding you to choose the right. It also sometimes draws the attention of others. That is I think one of the unsung and untouted effects- it affords you an opportunity to share your beliefs with your peers in an environment where it rarely surfaces and is regularly discouraged. My CTR ring affords me both the opportunity to remember my Savior as well as sometimes discuss Him with other people who are curious about what gaudy jewelry I wear and why. I don't really think God cares too much that we mostly stop wearing the ring after a few years, but I think He would smile to see the stain on your hand beneath it and know that you Honor the promise to remember Him always and benefit from the tangible and philosophical benefits this simple symbol affords.

I do not know if the church leaders even know or care about this, and I don't think it was their intent when they introduced these rings to be oblique and introduce layers of subtle symbolism, but I found it. Within a week of mentioning this in Sunday school, four members of my class started wearing theirs again, which is why my bishop asked me about it, since he noticed some High School Seniors wearing their old rings. So I told him essentially what I just told you. I think it's probably for most people a happy accident, but for someone like me, with an eye to see and a mind to comprehend, I don't think it was a coincidence that the ring provides literal as well as figurative protection. I live much better when I wear it. I feel much better (even if it's the placebo effect) when I wear it. Maybe I'm still not perfect, but it helps, and I don't get sick as much as other people seem to, and I'm not misled by fallacies like many people I encounter. The metals in the ring protect you from physical microbes, and the symbolic nature of the ring provides a shield against the attacks of the adversary. Sometimes, I find myself twirling it on my finger because the prongs are exposed, thinking about it subconsciously as I sit at my desk. Hopefully this shows in my actions. Essentially, there is no better way you could spend 25 cents to protect yourself from the fiery darts of the wicked and from the degradation of mortality than to buy and wear this ring. It's very small, but sometimes an inch of mettle is all that separates the hero from the craven, the Judas from Simon Peter. God loves us. He wants us to be successful, and He provides things to this end in our lives even if it takes us 30 years to understand the subtle nuances of His actions in our lives.